7/16/2014

Virginity, When you should lose it? #lapetitemichellethoughts

Well, hello there beautiful
 
Lately i've been neglecting this blog of mine as always, but i'm still going to blog every now and then. For those who are still following me thank you so much :)


Today i want to share my thought's about virginity and when you should lose it.
 
Majority of the girls and boys i know personally had lost their virginity while they we're still on their teen years. Most of you would probably say "it's none of your business" yes, ofcourse it's not. I'm not writing this to discriminate people or to force them what to do. I'm just merely sharing my thoughts in this little blog of mine.
If you don't like it then please do not read it, simple as that.
 
For me virginity is something special that you should only give to someone you love and loves you back not just because of that, but the whole package (The whole you not just your booty!)
Don't get rid of your virginity because of peer pressure (in order to fit in a group or to be labeled cool)
 
Way back when i was in high school some of my friends and classmates had sex already and they even bragged about it. That's why everyone knows that they're not virgins anymore.
And i will not be a hypocrite and say that i hate them because they did it. I was once a curious teenager and it may sound stupid but, being cool is a big deal for me before that's why i often hang out with the non-virgin's or bitches (that's what most of the people at my school call them)

  Even though i was curious about sex, i didn't do it. Why? Because i respect my body and i'm scared to get those sexual diseases like Std, aid's, herpes, crabs etc.
And growing up in a province with an Asian family is not an easy peasy. My mom would constantly remind me not to have sex when i'm still young because it will make me sick, worse pregnant and so on. And no boyfriend not until i reach college and graduated, so yeah...
 
Hitting puberty may cause your body to feel giddy, that's why masturbation exists. That's how we're different from animals because we can scratch that itch away without necessary help unlike those poor animals.

  As i grew up i eventually understood the importance of not losing your virginity over shallow reasons. Because everything we do has its consequence and it is either good or bad and losing your virginity while you're still on your teen year's usually doesn't have any positive results.
 
for those of you who are thinking of throwing their virginity out of the window Why not try pondering these 4 things first:
 
*1. Giving him your virginity doesn't mean that you'll end up forever. It's not an insurance my dear, if your boyfriend truly loves you he won't have sex with you not especially when you're still both young and ignorant.
 
*2. You might get sexual diseases. Not because he said he was clean does really mean he is. Having sex will give you a minute or hour of pleasure but is it worth the risk?
 
*3. Unprotected sex could make you pregnant. Are you both ready to take responsibility if ever that happens?
 
*4. If you had sex at an early age it could turn you into a nymphomaniac
(meaning: sex addict)
you'll have plenty of sex with different men since you're not a virgin anymore. And if that happens you might end up in shameful situation where most of the guy's in your home town had been inside your panties.
 Is that the kind of reputation you want to have?
What if also in the future your daughter fell in-love with one of your ex-boyfriend's son isn't that awkward?
Well, you'll never know!

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Rushing things will cause regret, not because everyone is doing it you have to.
And just because you can walk and talk at the same time, make's you a complete adult and know everything. because you're not!
(trust me! been there and done that)


I am thankful that i listened to my mom call, me misss conservative or whatever. Why be ashamed of being a virgin? you should be more ashamed of losing it for fun's sake!

Sex isn't something you can get back once you lose it.
It's not a game that you should do for pleasure purpose only.
Also sex isn't for kid's, yes if you're a teenager you're still a kid. Just an advice, focus on your life without sex and drugs. You don't need those to have fun. Hang out with your friend's, do some shopping, pig out, read a good book, go on a date, get to know people, travel and chase your dreams.

Don't #YOLO everything because everyday we live NOT only once.
Love yourself by respecting your body, wait for the right time and person to do it with.

As you grow older you will fully understand this. And you'll be happy that you didn't lose your virginity to just some pretty boy who wear's a jersey jacket with 1% I.Q and take's alot of #selfies lol
 

I don't have any intention of mocking those girls that had lost their virginity in a young age. I still respect everyone whatever their lifestyle is. I'm just sharing my own thought's in able to help someone who's having some issue with their virginity due to peer pressure or for other reasons.
 
 

michelle

6/05/2014

iWhite Korea Nose Pack & Purifying Essence: Product Review

Hello everyone
i know it's been a long time since i wrote something in this little blog of mine. There's alot of things that happened to my life these past few months that’s why my blog has been on hiatus. But from now on i'll be active again :) Yay!


Anyway, do you suffer from having those annoying blackheads/Whiteheads on your nose?

I don’t have big pores and usually i don’t struggle from having black or whiteheads, but ever since i reached my 20’s i noticed that my skin isn’t that flawless as it used to be. My pores became bigger and moving in Manila city made my skin’s condition worsen due to the pollution, all those smoke and dirt getting into my pores easily.
I’ve been trying different product’s that will help me get rid of those disgusting blackheads and unfortunately i haven’t found anything that is helpful, not until now.

Do you have the same problem like me? Well no worries, ‘cause i got the perfect black/whiteheads buster for you!

Have you heard of iWhite Nose pack and purifying essence?

About this product:

 

1/12/2014

Happy New Year 2014! & Giveaway Winner Announcement

Happy New year 2014!

First of all i want to thank everyone that has been supporting my youtube and blog. You all are simply amazing! and i wish each of you to have good health and luck throughout this year.

I'm on hiatus that's why i haven't done any make-up tutorial's or beauty product reviews for a while. also, i've been preoccupied with my life lately and there's alot of thing's that i'll be doing this coming months... sad to say i won't be making any make up tutorials for a long time.

On the brighter side,
I spent my new year at my aunt and uncle's farm out side the city of puerto princesa, palawan 
(FYI for those who doesn't know where it is, it's part of Philippines)
It was my first time to be there and it's fun.
Although, it's quite there but i never got bored because the view's are simply beautiful. And they had adorable animal's (of course it's a farm, silly me).
 I forgot to bring my camera though, so instead i took pictures using my phone only.


Luckily, everything there is picture perfect!


  

12/15/2013

CHRISTMASS GIVEAWAY! {CLOSED}

Hi everyone~
I have another giveaway for you all lovely ladies out there especially to those who had followed my blog/facebook/bloglovin/twitter/instagram/youtube
Thank you very much, you're all awesome!

If you all don't know i've been ill for the past week's and it is really awful.
I'm sorry that i don't have anything exciting to share.
But good news i'm perfectly fine now and also i'm very happy because my fiance's family is here for vacation. And i got to see his little sister which named jade, She's so sweet,energetic and i've been her babysitter sometimes when i'm free.
 
Sadly, my fiance won't be coming here for the holidays..*cries* but i truly understand him because there's still many thing's he had to do and other stuff's there. o-kay enough of my love life, because i know it's kinda sad but 'oh well....
 
About the giveaway, i'll be giving plenty of goodies for the winner
and by the way, on my last giveaway i apologize for the uber late update.
I already had e-mailed the winner which is Clara
 
so, onto the prizey...... *insert dramatic drum rolls*
 The winner shall receive 6 items! (3 dress,2 tops,1 skirt)
worrying about the size? Don't sweat it gurl 'cause i will e-mail the winner and ask for her size.

Amazing right?
 
Big thank's to shoppaholic_me online shop
for sponsoring this awesome giveaway

12/08/2013

Bunnywish decodens

Yet another fabulous trend influenced by our friends in Japan (and elsewhere by now), decoden or dekoden is for all of us who are part-crow in the sense that we dive for anything that glitters. The term “deco” is intuitively short for decorated and “den” is short for “denwa” meaning “phone” in Japanese [via DannyChoo]. But these fancy facades don’t stop at just phones. The deco craze has swept portable gaming systems, e-readers and even fingernails.
Tacky. That’s what most people in their right minds would say. And the cases are categorically over-the-top. That’s the point, to be decadent and whimsical. The embellishments range from faux icing and oven-bake clay figurines to bedazzled Hello-Kittys and tiny plastic items called cabochons that can be in the shape of anything from a robot-bear to a chili dog. Electronic devices are pretty nondescript on the outside for the most part, so the cases are ideally meant to serve the dual purpose of protection and self-expression.
The pieces themselves involve care, certainly. Often the owners of these have made the cases piece-by-piece with their own hands, although more and more ready-made cases are popping up on Etsy and specialty stores on the web. The “deco” term covers all of the types of embellishments, from flat and glittery to the most impractical faux-dessert topography, and making or finding a good one isn’t a small feat.

CREDITS TO lovelyish.com


My friend Mai of bunnywish.com
 
Creates & sells super cute and affordable decodens stuffs.

Here are few of her creations:
 
 
{decoden iphone case}

11/17/2013

Krave Cosmeceuticals 12 HD Liquid Foundation: Product Review

One of the most essential make-up product is a good foundation. As a freelance make-up artist/Aspiring youtube make up guru, it's important for me to have a foundation that has a flawless coverage that can lasts.
 

And today i'm going to share with you lovely ladies one of my favorite all time foundation and it's 12 HD liquid foundation from Krave Cosmeceuticals.

11/16/2013

There's always a rainbow after a storm: Life Update

I haven't been updating this blog of mine because my internet connection is broken which i had mentioned many times on my previous blog posts. But guess what? after 1 month and 2 week's my connection is finally fixed.


Also it's not just about my internet connection that dithered me from posting anything interesting or helpful, it's also what had happened recently here at my beloved homeland Philippines.
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